Jan 2, 2011

2011 Questions to ask yourself for the new year: from Pastor Josh 1.2.11

Our home town- Leavenworth, WA

Husbands…

  • How will you nurture your wife in the gospel?
  • How will you apply the gospel to her insecurities (do you even know what they are?).
  • How will you build gospel, hope-in-God confidence into your wife?
  • How will you nurture her emotional needs?
  • How will you ensure that she thrives under your leadership?
  • How will you lead her so that she is running and living at full capacity?
  • How will you lead her so that she faces the trials and temptations and heartaches of every day with the promises of God?
  • How will you sacrificially serve her?
  • How will you make her glad she married you?
  • How will you stir in her a passion for gospel mission?
  • How will you draw out of her calling and holy ambition?
  • How will you help equip her in her holy task of motherhood?
  • How will you make her feel like she is your #1 priority after Jesus?

Wives…

  • How will you build the confidence of your man?
  • How will you support him and be his helper?
  • How will you resist nagging him and instead encourage him?
  • How will you let him know you believe in him and love him?
  • How will you pray for him?
  • How will you encourage/free him to think and dream for your family?
  • How will you honor and promote his leadership in front of the children?
  • How will you serve him?
  • How will you anticipate his needs?
  • How will you keep his emotional and physical cup full and satisfied?
  • How will you stop undermining his leadership by always taking the initiative instead of humbly waiting and praying for him to lead

Fathers…

  • How will you help your children love Jesus this year?
  • How will you mold their hearts with the word?
  • How will you be intentional about knowing their needs?
  • How will you demonstrate the Father’s love to them?
  • How will you show them Christ?
  • How will you instill in them a love for God’s Word?
  • How will you motivate them to live their life for Jesus' sake?
  • How will you listen to them?
  • How will you model godly decision-making?
  • How will you model godly and wise time-management?
  • How will you bring your children on mission with you?
  • How will you make them feel as though they are priority over your career?
  • How will you instill in them the value of mentoring and being mentored?
  • How will you equip them to be a disciple-making disciple?
  • How will you make them feel secure in your love?
  • How will you keep your sons from needing to look for other role-models in manhood?
  • How will you keep your daughters from need to look to other men for affirmation in womanhood?
  • At the end of the year, will they say, “My daddy loves me, and I know it because -——-.“ ”uc" />

Mothers…

  • How will you help your children love Jesus this year?
  • How will you instill godly character into their lives?
  • How will you keep your own soul fresh amidst the strains of motherhood?
  • How will you model restraint in your schedule?
  • How will you give them a love for reading good books?
  • How will you give them a hunger to learn?
  • How will you give them a vision for how to spend their life for the glory of God?
  • How will you whet their appetite for gospel ministry?
  • How will you give them a desire to live outside of themselves and serve other people?

Children…

  • How will you make it a joy for your parents to lead you?
  • How will you work to take stress off of your parents and be a team player in your home?
  • How will you encourage your parents? How will you pray for them?
  • How will you let them know (tangibly) how much you love and appreciate them?
  • How will you encourage your siblings?
  • How will you honor your parents?
  • How will you fight sin?
  • How will you get the Bible into your bones?
  • How will you grow up? How will you move from unwise and immature to wise and mature?
  • What will you learn this year? Will you learn anything?
  • How will you be a witness for Jesus at your schools? On your sports team?

Christian…

  • How will you increase your joy and hope in Christ?
  • How will you prepare your mind and heart for suffering well to the glory of God?
  • How will you prepare to die well?
  • How will you help your church in the mission of God?
  • How will you play a part in a sinner coming to salvation this year?
  • How will you be a positive contributing factor to your church family?
  • How will you use your gifts/passions/talents to bless your church family?
  • How will you encourage other believers?
  • How are you re-arranging your life around gospel priorities?
  • How are you living in such a way that demands a gospel explanation?

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